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This woman… words cannot describe her worth for she is a treasure, so gorgeous, extraordinary, strong-willed, assertive and attractive to many.
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Labelled ‘an iron lady’, she’s a go-getter but her gender orientation stifles her determination to pursue a career in politics and other male-dominated areas. For this woman, many conclude that she is ‘unmarriageable’.
When she luckily gets a job, earns her money and invests in herself, she is termed to be ‘tough headed’ and must be funded by a certain man. They also insist that she must have some connections.
This woman, a force to reckon who stands strong before her children covering all the wounds inflicted on her. She has to cover up for their loving dad so as to put everything together.
This woman who tearfully recalls promises the love of her life made during that day before she said yes. All the goodies were so real, so near, exciting and easy to believe, this cemented her trust.
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This beautiful woman has a big heart that is always forgiving, loving, sacrificing and always keeps her children in mind.
This woman who is to naturally bear all the troubles through the nine months of pregnancy; the sleepless nights, morning sickness, urinary tract infection, the emotional stability just to have a beautiful event.
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The disturbing part is that she has to reproduce according to the societal expectation, she must give birth to a certain gender. She is subjected to emotional drain after childbirth of wondering how she will be received by the family.
This woman who must ‘determine’ the stability of a relationship, when it is on the rocks, fingers are all pointed to her, it varies from infertility claims to inability to keep her husband home. Even when the source of the problem is well known, she is silenced to maintain the stature of her beloved.
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This woman’s birth rate is none negotiable but is determined by her in-laws and loving husband. If she cannot meet the demand, another is quickly engaged to fill up the gap for her who is sleeping on the job.
This woman has to continue giving birth as long as she has not borne a boy child, it does not matter how many beautiful and intelligent baby girls she has given birth to. I salute this woman, she has to the 15th child without a son and is now pregnant hoping to get a boy to keep her marriage.